We have split but he won't move out

[Npgd81]

Hi everyone
I'm new here and looking for advice. My husband is a liar. He's put me through 6 years of stress lying about porn, gambling, hiding credit card statements from me. Having a midlife crisis last year and saying he doesn't want to be with me anymore but we got over it, now another one and he says he loves me as a best friend. Anyway it's been going on for nearly 4 weeks and he won't move out. We rent, both names on tenancy. I have 3 kids, one is his. I've spoken to his mum and just don't know what else to do. I feel like I'm going to crack up carrying on like this and he's just told me to be normal and carry on!!! This is not right behaviour, how can I act normal?!

So this morning we had a massive row and he pushed me out the door and onto the bed. I walked off and said well done and then he shouted he's been having an affair for the last 6 months so I ran back in and shouted and slapped him on the back. He was then trying to photo it and saying he's using it as evidence... I'm now scared he's going to come home as I've been out all morning

If he insists on getting in bed, I suggest you have an accidental bed wetting episode that is aimed purely in his direction.

Or eat 10 packs of beef jerky about 2hrs before bed, you'll need to wear a gas mask yourself but there's no way he'll want to sleep next to your protein farts. If he tried he might well die anyway.

sorry didn't see your last message. OK it's now getting physical so you need to get rid. Can you call Womens Aid for advice? Don't be tricked into physically retaliating against him.

Contact people TODAY and get the ball rolling. You cannot sit and passively wait for this cunt to decide you're not going to split up. You have split up. He's fucking other women. Speak to the landlady, speak to the kids, speak to the council about housing. He won't be an adult so you're going to have to.

I've spoken to the police today and they are ringing me back to make a statement. The fact I slapped him back though worries me as he said he'd get me done for domestic abuse. The only way I can apply for housing is online and I need to get munch accounts up to date so better do that quickly

FGS, this is worse than kids in a playground; get the Police to strongly advice him to go his mummies; he wants to carry on taking the piss out of you because he's a nasty git who is trying to ensure you crack; don't let him win; speak to the Police, Women's Aid and the HA or Landlord, be honest, tell them he must go, you are not going to be made to leave when you have 3 children living there.

Making a statement about what? It is not a good idea to speak to the police without legal advice now that you have committed a crime.

Stop being goady Hont. It was the ex who pushed OP first.

Not being goady. Her ex apparently has a video of her hitting him and the police are involved. There is no upside of her talking to the police without advice. This could be very serious.

My ex does not have a video of me hitting him! He tried to get a picture of his back where I hit him. I explained that to the police and they said it sounds like he was trying to provoke me and I have a text message to say he did it for a reaction.... I've got to cover myself in case things get out of hand again surely?

Oh and he moved out yesterday

Great news! Do you have his key?