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Mumsnet has not checked the qualifications of anyone posting here. If you need help urgently or expert advice, please see our domestic violence webguide and/or relationships webguide. Many Mumsnetters experiencing domestic abuse have found this thread helpful: Listen up, everybody

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user1497646537 · 16/06/2017 22:06

Okay, The subject is a little dramatic, and not mumsy at all!

But I need help from people all over the world, to try and let the man I love know I love him and why. We have had such a hard time lately, we've moved out of our home and are living apart. But we both love eachother and just moved into things too young too fast. I want to make things work, but he's had people telling him that it'll never work.

I want to ask him on a date, and I want to make a video with a compilation of people taking pictures of themselves holding a sign with 1 reason I love him on, take it with the view of your location, or as a selfie! Up to you. And I want to caption it with where you're from and I want to get hundreds! Just to show him the lengths i'd go to to show him I care. So much so I'd let the whole world know. i don't care if you're up the road or in china! I really need your help girls.

Let me know if you want to help and I will give you my email and let you know what I want you to write for me

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ImperialBlether · 16/06/2017 23:13

I know it's a really difficult thing to do, but I think the only thing you can do is to play it really cool with him. I know your natural instinct is to be all over him, but in my experience the only thing that works is to back off a little. And if he doesn't come to you, no amount of tricks would make him come to you. If he does, well, you're all set. But please, don't make him think you're just there and ready and waiting for him.

skyzumarubble · 16/06/2017 23:13

Do yo think he wants to save it? It doesn't sound like it to be honest. Time to walk away quietly without grand gestures?

HeddaGarbled · 16/06/2017 23:37

I'm so sorry but this isn't sounding good to me.

Why can't he be a young man and see his friends while still in a relationship with you? Lots of people seem to manage both.

I think he wants to break up but he is trying to let you down gently. Unfortunately, by not being straight with you, he is giving you false hope and perpetuating the agony.

Don't make a fool of yourself. Google search 'the pick me dance' and reclaim your dignity. I know it's hard, we've all been there

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