This has been going on a while now. He has been 'weird' since last Aug/Sept and then in Feb finally decided he wanted to split up, then about 2 weeks later on a Friday night called and said he wanted to talk. He said he wanted to have another go at things, and I pointed out I didn't want to split up in the first place, he was the one who said about splitting up and said he didn't love me anymore and didn't want to go to RELATE as he saw no point and no one could change the way he felt. Then on the Saturday he picked me up from work and said he needed to tell me things about 2 situations, I needed to know about. He said back in Sept he had been with this girl from work while I had been with B & SIL and they had done just about everything but sex, and he also said in Jan/Feb time he had been with another girl at work but it was 'alright cos I only kissed her a few times'!?!? I pointed out that didn't make it alright as we were married. Then on the Sunday he was on the phone in the front room to the 2nd girl he had 'only kissed a few times' and I went mad at him. I DD in my right arm and I slapped him with my left, he picked us up and threw us across the room where we landed on the sofa. I walked out with DD and took her to my parents. Later he wanted to talk again, and he admitted he HAS had sex with the first girl!
He wanted to know what I was thinking after he told me so I said that I had had a gut feeling for the past 6+ months that he had had something going on with these 2 and he denied it and got really nasty and angry if I asked anything and he even asked me how I could even think he'd do something like that. I told him he had actually made me feel a lot better as the gut feeling I'd had had gone away and I didn't feel like I was paranoid anymore.
Solicitor coming this afternoon to sort stuff....I'm a bit scared of that.