Hello. I am with DP for two years but the last few months the arguments are frequent. The main reasons are, him can not accept any opinion that doesnt match his and i can not accept his insults anymore and i answer back to him. He is emotionally abusive and he takes his anger out on things like hitting the table etc. Now he came up with the idea that the reason for the arguments is that i plot against him and i want to make him leave. I am unhappy and i want out but certainly i dont plot anything and the arguments are mostly down to his attitude and ideas. He told me that if i plot anything against him he will crash me to the ground and he will find a way to revenge. He said that he knows all my weaknesses and he will use them against me . He also said that he doesnt want me to get him to that point. All that it sounds at least mental and i am not sure if i should take it seriously or how to proceed. He is always bragging how he is a "big man" and "alpha male" and "everyone is scared of him" but the reality is that most of it is in his mind only. Its terrible to say for my partner but thats the truth. However he is aggressive , rages very easy, threatens often and hitting things when he is angry.For sure there is no love in even thinking like this .