Ok anyone know what the signs of stalking are? Some 16 years ago I worked on a project with a woman both in our mid-thirties at the time, we had an instant and quite mutual attraction however she was getting married and although we got very close we stayed within the bounds of her situation. Over the years we kept in touch odd e-mail few times a year friendly what’s going on in your life sort of thing. Roll forward to last year I get an e-mail suggesting it would be nice to meet up , and as I was in the same area I thought ok , we got on as before however I was in a relationship (my partner at the time knew of the meeting). She divorced her husband, my relationship subsequently ended however I no longer felt physically attracted to her as she had changed in a substantial way. I have not perused a relationship with her other than friends.
Since then I have been bombarded with e-mails and phone calls (she uses different phones) that seem to get ever desperate some saying I don’t want to be e-mail friend and others saying she is getting married when she is not, other saying she wants contact and others getting more and more angry with me I have young children and a busy life (she has no children) recently she has been spending time locally to me I have not shared my address but she has sent photos of local beauty spots. At the moment I am seeing her in a slightly threatening way I have told my current partner about her, but worry that she is becoming more unhinged as I also get texts from her telling me things then a txt saying it was not meant for me. I don’t want to hurt her but any contact seems to create a torrent of texts and silence does not work either.