I'm on my phone and this may end up quite long, so apologies in advance. I've missed out quite a bit to keep it to the main facts.
I'm in a mess and can't really see the wood from the trees atm. I could do with some straight, impartial advice.
Split up with bf just before Christmas. There were issues in our relationship which included his gambling addition and me starting to find myself developing feelings for another man.
After he moved out i started seeing this guy, at the same time i was struggling with a mental health condition I have had since my teens. It became blatantly obvious how much I was struggling and he was a huge support. I had never spoken or sought help for my issues and he was the first person I was ever able to tell. He gave me the confidence to get help, which I did.
We carried on seeing each other. I was pining over my ex still but I was starting to get over it i think.
Fast forward 5 months and I get the news my ex is having a baby with someone else. I pretty much had a breakdown, was absolutely distraught. I got in contact with my ex, turns out he was not properly with the lady who is pregnant and I ask him to come home, which he does.
I now think I regret it. I told him about my mh issues which he's completely ignored.. He's being lovely and just as he always was but there's something that just isn't right. I've expressed this to him and he says I need to give it more time.
What do you think?