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Poisongirl81 · 08/06/2017 18:59

For my son. It's his birthday his dad is too busy to see him! His dad is useless I know that my son knows that but it doesn't make it any easier. I have a new partner who lives him. My son doesn't like his dad anyway. His dad is a complete cunt the minute a new woman is on the scene. It breaks my heart that he doesn't see our gorgeous boy and want to celebrate his birthday.

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newjobsoon · 08/06/2017 19:09

Don't let it spoil his birthday. Don't dwell on it as I'm sure ds will have lots of fun with the two people who love him!
Its his loss.

SparklyMagpie · 08/06/2017 19:58

As much as it hurts,your son doesnt need him to celebrate his birthday. So go for it, aslong as he knows how loved he is and has a loving family around him

Happy birthday to your DS x

MummysMaison · 08/06/2017 20:12

I can't believe some people. Your poor son :( at least he has a lovely mum to celebrate with. He does sound like he is better off without him anyway? My ex didn't bother with Christmas presents/cards for my 2 DDs last year. I feel so sorry for them Sad x

Poisongirl81 · 08/06/2017 21:08

Thank you...im.sorry so many men are like this. It makes me sad he doesn't help much or is even bothered I feel so angry right now x

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Poisongirl81 · 08/06/2017 21:22

He lives a mile away yet is busy on his birthday. Sees them sporadically and is nasty as hell to me if I say anything about his fathering skills

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Poisongirl81 · 08/06/2017 21:41

My dd is asking when she can see her dad! What do I say he won't reply to me to make arrangements. I told her this she is crying saying to be quiet it's giving her nightmares. Saying she feels bad she doesn't see him....i just feel so sorry for them both 😓

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