Friend recently got divorced from hasty bully ex-h. There were 3 mediated agreements, which he subsequently refused to action so they ended up in court. His version is that friend was the one who dragged it out and is now putting his version of events all over fb and generally slagging her off to all and sundry (omitting things like his adultery, abandoning them with no money and 2weeks of tenancy left leaving them homeless, paying the bare minimum support, constantly messing with finance and contact order). He has also been constantly bringing the children into it. He allowed them to read all the divorce material, including the nasty e mails they sent each other (those from him heavily edited ). THe eldest is now parroting this crap back. My friend has been v careful to keep the kids out of it, but it is now getting out of hand. They are early teens. How should she handle this? Is it time to proactively tackle the bullshit, or will the kids figure it out on their own eventually?