To Send Happy Birthday message or not?

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Friend of 10+yrs and I have had a fall out. In my opinion, not my fault but somehow I'm being blamed. I'll not go into it here.
We have't been in eacothers company so not had to face her or anything. She blocked me on fb & removed .e from Snapchat, I unfriended her. So it's her birthday, do I send a general happy birthday text or not?

Nope

If you're saying you haven't done anything wrong, just say happy birthday. It makes you look like the better person and if she doesn't say thank you, youl know where you stand from now on.

No - she's blocked you, ffs!

Personally I would if I valued the friendship and wanted to try and salvage something from it

Depends on whether you want to make up or not. If yes, it's your olive branch, though you need to prepare yourself for it being rejected. If no, then don't bother.

Hmmmm. Thank you for your input. I'll probably chicken out and not do anything.

The friendship is over. Don't even bother.

Liam sent Noel a happy birthday tweet.

She'll probably see it as something PA!

Nobody ever thinks they're at fault in these situations so you're already completely unreasonable in her eyes! She probably wouldn't see it as a friendly text!

If you really want to reach out to her a text is a crappy way of doing it. Send a decent card, apologise for your part in whatever happened, and tell her you miss her and the good times you had together.