A woman I know has been doing a lot of OLD and RL dating recently. She's attractive ,intelligent but not without flaws herself TBH. She has got an ego boost having been single for a while but I don't feel comfortable with what she told me about one date she had and how she goes about rejecting men in general. She met this chap through OLD, got on well with him but didn't feel any chemistry. So she told him outright she wasn't attracted to him and the aspects of his looks which weren't to her taste. I think this was too much. She's also started taking a kind of harsh approach in real life. We were out for a drink and a man came up to us, she proceeds to say "not interested, neither is she (points to me) or anyone else for that matter". It did "work" in that we were left alone but he looked absolutely gutted and kind of melted into the floor. I know my friend has had some bad experiences but I feel like telling her to tone it down a bit. I can't imagine what it must be like having to do all the approaching and then someone humiliating you publically like that.