handhold/arse kick needed

[Bleurghghghgh]

After 4 years my ex appears to have finally had enough of me after a stupid row. I was planning on ending things after it becoming very clear that he's an EA twat this weekend. But I called him out on it and he's blocked my number. So I feel like he's beaten me to it. Which is silly. But there we go.

I've stopped crying now. I cried when I realised the EA not when he blocked me.

WTAF Hatter - what a nasty post. Do you understand even the first thing about EA?

Anyway, reported.

Op, you calling him out on EA is probably the best possible thing you could have done. Not only is he history, but when he comes crawling back (which he will) you'll be able to tell him where to go.

You just have to stay strong and keep your resolve

BadHatter any reason for being a dick?

Maybe hatter is the ex?!

Let's not feed the GF

Sorry you've had this response, bleu
What a pain, beating you to the draw.

What made you see light on the EA?

The negativity in this thread towards self-reflection is disappointing.

No. It's negativity towards anyone who claims someone who has experienced abuse needs to be a better partner.
OP. You're well out of it. Be happy.

Thank you guys.

I realised it because it was a whole weekend of it when I'd only seen him for an hour (and he'd stormed off) - been texting me shit all weekend. That combined with a good friend who I finally opened up to. When I confronted him about it he tried to dial it up but it was too late and he basically embarrassed himself.

That's how I knew.

I feel sad. Really sad. Four years! But ok. We weren't together. He couldn't even give me that. There's no DC or anything so I can just cut myself off. I hope!

And go and fuck yourself Hatter. You don't know me or my situation. I'm proud of myself - something I'd bet you've never felt.