I went on a first date last night and it was ok. I felt like the conversation was a bit more difficult than it has been over text but it's the first time we've met so ok. I felt like I was having to make most of the conversation though.
We went for a meal and then afterwards I thought he was dropping me off home but he was wanting to carry the evening on asking 'What should we do now?' So we went for a drink somewhere. He then was suggesting coming back to my house which I found a bit forward but there was nothing to suggest he was going to try anything so he came in. We watched tv for a while and talked a bit more and then he left a couple of hours later. No attempts of anything untoward.
Outside the door he asked if he could kiss me which took me by surprise as I couldn't work out whether this date had gone well or not. But he had wanted to spend longer with me after the meal and wanted to kiss me.
After he left I text him saying thankyou for the night and I've not heard a word since. Nothing.
It's my first time dating since I got completely ghosted last year quite badly.
Why would someone extend the evening and ask for a kiss if they had no intentions of ever speaking to you again?
Yes I know it hasn't been long but he has always replied quickly. Always. And he has been online since then so it's out of character.