Stalked for a year by ex husbands woman!!! OMG

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My husband of 24 years went off with a Filipino bar girl (18 years his junior) and got her pregnant almost immediately. She has just had the baby (two days after our divorce came through).
The weird thing is that for an entire year she has been stalking me from the other side of the world. She's sent vile messages about my body and my sex life with my ex, amongst other things. She copies photos (poses etc) of me on Facebook and whatsapp. She has asked my ex EVERY SINGLE detail about me, even down to my bank account details, my childhood, the make of my car, my salary and my job.
She seemingly has what she wants (a man with money and a baby) so WHY ON EARTH doesn't she just bugger off and leave me alone?!??!?!?!
The police and foreign office have been notified yet they can't do much as she's abroad.

Have you just found this out?

How do you know she asked your ex all this info?

I'd suggest you stop looking her up on Facebook and WhatsApp. Block her and move on.

Why on earth wouldn't you lock down your Facebook security settings in this case? Truly baffles me.

Change your bank details too.

Because she's an insecure, idiot.
Block and move on.

I assume you blocked her straight away and changed your privacy settings and use a different email etc etc?

Is your ex telling her these things?

Change your main profile picture to something that's not you. Close down your privacy settings. Then block her. Still do the privacy settings as there's a chance she'll look for you from another account.

Go on to whatsapp and go on to privacy and also set it so that only your contacts can see your profile picture.

What a crazy bitch!

How do you know she has asked your ex every single detail about you?
How do you know if he told her?

How do you know its not him playing a mind fuck game.
How do you know its not him talking her into copying your poses etc?

If you dont keep your social media privacy settings high what do you expect the police and foreign office to do?

First thing I would do is to block her and ex on facebook.
As has been suggested change your profile pic.
If possible change your facebook name
Set privacy to friends only.

Set up new email accounts , one for friends and family, one for Amazone, Ebay, Banking and the like. One for facebook and social media.

Change your accounts with these firms to new email with totally random passwords. ( ie pick a book close eyes, open page and point at a word, add the odd number into the word and use this as password)

Keep old email and look at it occasionally, use this account if you need to contact ex.

Are you sure it's happening this way around???

How can she get hold of your Facebook photos? Surely you'd lock down your account so she can't acces?

This is very strange