AIBU? My husband is very quick to speak rudely about my parents and siblings. Not just little comments but long well rehearsed monologues. Tonight has been one such night. We are staying with old family friends, my parents haven't seen these people in years as they now live far away from us. As we were staying in the area for half term I looked them up. They kindly asked us over for supper. After two glasses of wine the conversation turned to my siblings. My husband then started the whole monologue. One of my siblings did get into some trouble in their youth but has been married with children for years. I didn't feel we needed to tell these people. They may still be in contact with other people my parents know. Obviously I am quite upset about it as it is 3.30am and I am writing this.
My worry is that we have a trip booked in the summer and some other family friends have kindly offered for us to stay with them for a few days. I do not want a repeat of this from my husband. I have asked him before not to do this. In fact several years ago I broke down while we were seeing old friends of mine because he did it. I spoke to him at the time, explains how horrible I thought it was but he carries on. I am not going to say I never relay the odd story about my mother in law but only her being critical of me. I certainly do not speak badly about his siblings and certainly would not do it in front of his family friends.
AIBU? Should I make other plans for the summer trip to avoid this? My parents would be mortified if any of this ever came back to them.