I think I am probably being unreasonable. I ha e been out of an a using relationship for 4yrs now. He left me for ow when our daughter was young. Have dropped her off tonight and he's told me they are having a baby. They had an abortion 4 months ago because they felt it wasn't the right time. I am in bits. I don't know why. To top this he has told my daughter without discussing it with me. I am upset and angry. I wanted more children but had a miscarriage shortly before he left. I guess I am feeling upset and feel that life is unfair (childish) and there is no such thing as karma. I do everything for dd and work a full time job. He fits her in when he can and gets to have another child. I'm being unreasonable feeling like this aren't I?