We have been together for about 4 years and then split for 5. We got back together 2 years ago. Still together. When me and my fiancé argue, it gets to the point of him always threatening to leave me high and dry and take our girls. I did let him talk me into quitting my job a year ago. That's about the time when these issues started. We argue a lot. He doesn't hear me out. When I try to talk to him during an argument to work things out he is always talking over me or says he doesn't want to hear it. Last night it was about sex. I definitely put out. He got it 2 days in a row and wanted it for the third day. I said I needed to rest and relax. Now its I never give it to him when he wants it. Only when I want it. Not true. I still give it to him whether I want it or not. But try to tell him other wise and he throws a fit. He's told me that I am wasting his time. Ive told him to leave since he is so unhappy and then he keeps asking me if I have found someone else. Which I haven't. I am perfectly capable of taking care of myself. Has anyone been in this situation and managed to work things out? I have 4 children and 2 of them are his. Sadly they overhear a lot of our arguments.