I've been with my partner for 3 months. He has a big problem with commitment. We have been on holiday, I've met his friends and family, he has me staying at his place more often than not. I do a lot of things for him and try my hardest to please although he has never told me that he loves me. This wouldn't normally bother me, but I recently came across some old texts to his ex from about 2 years ago when they had only been together for a few weeks where he was telling her that he loved her and that he felt empty and lonely without her. For some reason it has upset me and made me feel quite unloved as he can be quite cold and critical towards me. When he has seen that he has upset me, he has been a bit better but it soon lapses. I love him to bits but would never say the L word first. Last night I asked if he wanted me to leave and he said nothing. So I went downstairs for a while to gather my thoughts. When I came back up he asked what I was doing, I said that I thought he wanted me to go and he said "don't be so silly and get into bed" and he put his arm around me. I'm so confused. He breaks my heart.