I think I have just broken up with my boyfriend of 5 years. We have both had a stressful year. We've bought our first house together last year and are still renovating it (getting close to the end now). My Dad has been having an affair with a romanian woman and my Mum believes that she cannot afford to leave him. I used to be a daddys girl and Dad being a total moron has hit me hard. To think that someone you trust can do that to do after 20+ years of being together. I work for my dad so work has been tough and with have daily arguements. I am thinking of leaving for another job but its just all this stress has put a massive strain on our relationship. We haven't has sex for a while and we hardly act like a couple so I thought it best to separate. Now I'm not sure whether its what is going on with my parents or that I'm happy in this relationship. Advice is much needed!