Married 6 years, happy at first but soon v unhappy, my husband has narcissistic tendencies and is an emotional abuser on occasion. I guess i knew this when i married him but thought i could live with it.
Ashamed to say I had an emotional affair which turned physical once. OM msgd me almost daily & I thought about him all the time. I was in a fog constantly.
But recently OM got himself a girlfriend. He said hoped we could carry on but i think he just didn't want to end it. So stupid as i am married after all... but I felt dropped from a great height - barely any msgs and he didn't even tell me himself about girlfriend. So I am trying to end it & tell him to concentrate on his new relationship. He says he still has feelings for me making it harder for me.
Deep down i am bereft but can't show it. I am ready to be flamed and know it's all my own fault. I felt like i couldn't make any decisions about my marriage with OM on the scene cause i felt so guilty. We have 2 kids so decisions are far reaching. I know i should try repair my marriage but right now i don't have any enthusiasm. Will this change?
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MumsBiscuits · 28/05/2017 20:24
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