Background. We have a 6 year old with ASD. I am in the last week of my teaching placement and about to qualify. I'm shattered. I'm stressed and tired.
Picked up asd child from minder. She was on the verge of a meltdown as she wasn't getting time to play in the garden. I bribed her home. She then was on he verge of a meltdown until bedtime. Constant questioning. Telling me I was hurting her feelings (I told her off for poor behaviour), in a cycle of repeat. Just constant low level moaning and whining and questioning. I thought my head would explode. I'm so tired and so stressed. He then has a go at me when I'm in the middle of my 400 jobs about my tone of voice. This quickly turns into a character assassination where he tells me I need to change. I stress everyone out and I don't realise how much everyone (I.e him).
This is because he goes to collect his step children tomorrow. It's an hour and a bits drive. I don't drive.
All the time he's sitting on the sofa. He only intervenes to undermine my parenting. He then fucks off for a walk whilst I settle dd. Who has been on and off questions and whining for over an hour.
He's going to come back and want to talk about this. From experience this would likely be another hour of how shit I am.
AIBU to tell him to fuck off and give me peace