I think I fancy someone way younger than me

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Met a chap, he really is just lovely. I have never hit it off with someone like this before... we have so much in common and I feel like I have know him forever, not just months. Not just that, but I feel so comfortable around him, and I can speak so openly to him... with no fear of judgement, etc... you get the idea.

The thing is, I really miss him when I don't see him. We have done so much together already, just simple things, but just being with him doing it makes it fun. I think I am getting a bit infatuated with him if truth be told. I know, I am probably just being the vulnerable woman now, as going through a difficult divorce, and he is just so nice to me all the time. I think this is skewing my mind really.

I am 46. He is 29. Eeek.

That's not good is it???

Personally I think if they're young enough to have come out of you then they're too young to go inside you...

Ok this made me laugh

Well he is nearly 30 so its not like all his friends are 20/21 age.. they are early thirties.. and yes I have met some of them as well...they are good fun.

Hustle you said was in your post. Was it recently? I mean were you 27 when you were seeing her?

It was a couple of years ago. We met by accident in a bar - She was going through a messy divorce at the time and we just clicked - there was a definite spark. It was largely physical to be honest but I gave her what she wanted and she gave me what I wanted ;) Never any want on either side for a long term relationship at that time which suited us both perfectly.

Was a big turn on for both of us but in different ways.

Hustle

I am thinking with the very same attitude now, and life is short...

Yeah, well, lets see what happens on Saturday....

Not going to go all out to tart myself out there as I am not like that anyway, but if something goes further, I wont be too upset...

Was sitting next to my colleague today, he was putting the hot in hot desking!

Auld

In my defence, this guy plays the guitar and has a couple of decent tattoos on very muscular forearms.... I mean, really...... . Oh and he is left handed...its a thing y'know.... left handed guitar playing is hot....I should start another thread on this

I will stop now....

I was sitting next to my young colleague today and he kept tugging at his t-shirt and scratching his washboard stomach. I was sitting with a big red sweaty face with my fringe plastered to my forehead.

Keep calm!! Take some deep breaths!! Go lie down!!

I am 68 and have just said goodbye to a young builder who came round to give me an estimate - forget the estimate, I can think what I would really like him to give me! Purely art appreciation of course.

When I was in my 40s a young and extremely dishy work colleague made it very clear that he fancied me - I did not take up his offers, as I was married with children - but it was nice to be appreciated!

It seems to work for the French President and his wife....

Oh dear, young colleague caught me checking out his arse looking in his direction today. Lots of glances exchanged.

Go for it! Life is too short to worry about a little age gap!

I was looking good yesterday and hardly had any contact with ooh young man.

Looking like I've been pulled through a hedge backwards today with wonky eye liner- sods law dictates I won't be able to get away from him!

Love this thread

Go for it op! 😄

I was expecting something like 'I'm 30 and he is 17' which I would say is too young!

At 29 he is fully an adult and I don't think he age gap is an issue. Besides...he sounds sexy

I wouldn't bat an eyelid at that age gap.

I'm 26 and DH is 10 years older than me. I also have harmless crushes on a 52 year old colleague and an 18 year old colleague. As happy as i am in my marriage, if I was single I can't promise I wouldn't act on either crush...

I've been trained in a new area of work and was informed by manager today that my go to person for help and coaching is none other than Ooh young man, oh the hardship!

How is it going now? Are you together?

I'm 35 and my boyfriend is 49. For us it's fine because neither of us have/want children. He's very sexy but he doesn't always believe that I want him more than I would want someone my own age.

Its not that bad. 15 years. No-one would bat an eyelid if the sexes reversed.

Go for quality and truth.

Thats all.