Husband texted me at 10:30 last night to say he was done with work, but going to grab a beer with co-workers. I say, "Okay, be careful." Fast forward to 3:00am when he finally comes home and spends the next HOUR making noise in the kitchen. I was so tired and pissed, I couldn't even deal with getting up. Now, this morning he tries to say he's sorry for being a little late....I got mad and told him it's rude to stay out drinking until 3am when you're married and have a baby at home. He gets super pissy and defensive and says I'm attacking him and being mean. Dude, WTF? He's done this same thing maybe 5 times in the past when I was pregnant, and since baby arrived. Every time, I tell him I don't appreciate it, he then says he won't do it again. What is going on here? I try to talk to him about it, but he just gets defensive. By the way, he hangs out with friends all the time and I don't have a problem with it, so it's not like I'm trying to control him or not let him have fun. Ugh, I just feel like I'm bashing my head against the wall whenever this happens.