continually and then i find within days of moving out he met else & organised his entire life around this other woman, even visits with kids/holidays etc and I mean the entire year. Understand as we were separated but he's kept me 'out there' trying to make it work saying there was no one else, he would change, let's move house etc. etc.. When the other woman put pressure on him, he in turn took it out on me, and since I found out six weeks ago he's now discarded her and wants to carry on with happy families with me. Even told me she reminded him of me ! She kindly sent me ALL the correspondence on emails, whatsapps & specifics. Think in her naivety she assumed he would hurry up and divorce me but he's not. I was willing to give it a try after a year break as we've been together for 24 years but this was before I knew of the other woman. It's very intense stuff, planning to move in together, holdiays all booked around her. I feel like a complete & total fool as appears lots of people knew of her & I kept being convinced by him & we both agreed we needed space. Found out entirely by chance - don't we always! Now more confused than I was beforehand as I was just starting to get on with my life. Anyone else out there had a similar experience? It's not something one can openly discuss with friends as I feel so foolish for beleiving all his lies.