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I'm so fed up with DH

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Lazylou · 15/03/2007 18:09

He is really pissing me off at the moment. I applied for uni in March last year, was accepted within 2 days of my application. DH knew all about this although he wasn't very happy about it. He then decides in September last year to enrol for 2 GCSEs. Now whilst I am really pleased he is going for it, I'm a fed up. He was working full time, went down to part time and now doesn't work at all because his 2 GCSEs are so demanding (he does them at night school btw). In the meantime, I have started my degree, and have to hold down a full time job (course requires at least 16 but with him not working...) look after the house and DD plus go to uni and study at the same time.

Today he got up, packed his bag and off he went to college to do a whole day's worth of studying, leaving me at home with DD and all the housework to do (which btw hasn't been done as much as I would have liked).

I would love to be able to just piss off to college for a whole day, stick 2 fingers up to everything else. When I suggest that, I get called... unreasonable.

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themildmanneredjanitor · 15/03/2007 18:11

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danceswithaSPRINGinherstep · 15/03/2007 18:11

He sounds like a keeper...NOT. Can you spell S E L F I S H P I G?! Sorry, I'm sure he has his redeeming features but really surely is taking the p*ss?

nogoes · 15/03/2007 18:12

Oh god Lazylou, I am not surprised you are fed up it sounds like you are expected to take responsibility for everything! You need to have a serious chat with him, you can work full time and study for 2 GCSE's, he should either get a job or take responsibility for the main bulk of running the home and childcare. You have way too much on your plate.

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