I have posted before about my marriage & I am happy to say that things are a lot lot better. However, I have unfortunately just had an argument with DH & he says that I don't want things to change because I keep raking up the past. I got resentful because he was basically trying to tell me how I feel (which isn't true, I do of course want things to change & they already are) but I did agree that I do have a tendency to rake up the past. I can't just switch off from those years but I know there is no point rehashing stuff my DH did & as a result him feeling constantly criticised. I would really appreciate any advice as to how I can try not to keep dwelling on bad times & look forward to the good :)