Had lovely weekend last week. Looking forward to getting house done up after children have left home, sunny weather, saw friends, planned holidays and summer events for h and I. All good except for this...
After work one day h declared he had a wind fall so I asked would he add it to the other money he had. Que him telling me I was negative and calling me stupid in a condescending manner. I told him to stop and moved on but kept my distance. The next evening he tells me that I can only ask things once and to ask things twice shows I have no intelligence. I said but things can change so I was just checking in.
More condescending comments and I lost it.
I brought up the fact that in order to proceed doing up the house I needed money in a joint account so I could access it. I have been asking him for years and it has become a sticking point as I refuse to ask him every time I need money to pay someone.
Previously this had happened and he refused to pay and I got nasty letters.
So he did put some money in a very small amount and I was supposed to be grateful but I refused to be saying it was just normal to do this.
So he said I've got to put money in your little hand in a sarcastic way.
Christ all this because I want to move on as the house is a complete mess.
He says he doesn't trust me and that is the reason? TBH I don't feel like doing all the things I have planned now. All the mood boards etc.
Feel like I'm being taken for a ride.