My DH spends more time on his phone than he does talking to me. As relationships go we are doing fine considering some of the shit life has thrown at us. But because of the shit we have going on with our life I cant find the right way to tell him how much is addition to his phone is effecting me. My two boys see it, not just from my point of view but there own attempts to chat with him, to be half heartily listened to. I hint little things about him being on his phone and it gets a shitty reaction. Just tonight, he said right I'm off to bed (me I try to convince him to watch another episode of the box set we are watching) he says no and switches the box set off. Then goes on his phone on facebook. I comment, I thought you where going to bed..... he gets up and gets ready to go up, I say, it would have been nice if you had come for and kiss and cuddle but you went on facebook instead. He comes back with, I was gonna stay for a bit look at facebook and then give you a cuddle but you lost out with your comments 