DH and I have been doing couple counselling for the past few months. I have to admit that it made me feel better. However, as time goes by, I've started wondering if this is how things are meant to be going. The counsellor doesn't say much, she tries to remain neutral (which I do understand) but somehow she has never touched upon certain issues I tried to bring up - such as financial abuse, he is constantly telling me, in front of her as well, that I didn't invest a penny in our marriage ( I am SAHM and I do absolutely everything else, he just brings money home which he spends the way he wants). She seems to ignore this even though I find this issue absolutely frustrating. Also, I deliberately mention his drinking often as I want her to pick up on it without having to say openly that he has a drinking problem (I was advised to do it this way). She never raised this question. The more the time passes, my DH is just becoming more confident that I'm the cause of all issues in our marriage, that I should just listen to him and that he is (always) right. If this continues like this I'm afraid I will start developing resentment towards counselling.
What is your experience with counselling? Should I expect us to be called upon our "flaws" eventually in order to be able to fix things?