My DW died six years ago, long and happy marriage brought to an end by cancer. Since that time, I've tried to move on. About three years ago I got into a relationship with a friend/work colleague. Didn't go well, as she wasn't able to make the changes she said she wanted ( marriage, kids, living together) she wouldn't commit to us despite saying she would.
Problem is that I feel lost, I long to see/hear from her. Mutual friends tell me she moved in with someone a month after meeting them
Just feel stuck and would like some advice, messages telling me I shouldn't contact her!