Hi I am new to mums net well sort of been lurking for months this is my first post.
Where to start ? I have been with DP for nearly 8 years and have a 4 yo DD. I am having serious doubts about our relationship and have felt like this for a while the main problem is my dp cannabis problem. He only smokes spiffs and has about 6 a day (what I know of anyway) and he is a really kind and caring person when he has some to smoke the problem starts when he has not got his fix. He becomes this very nasty person who either ignores me completely or shouts at me and dd, it feels like I am in a relationship with 2 different people. It has caused no end of problems e.g lost his job once because he got caught smoking it, ruined every family holiday I now refuse to go on holiday with him and spends any spare money on it. I have asked him several times to give up / cut down not for me but for the sake of our dd and so far has not even attempted to give up which means that he could not give a s**t about losing his family.
Before Christmas I thought enough is enough I was going to leave after Christmas but when I see him with dd I just can not ever imagine splitting them up she thinks the world of him. Re ? reading this back I know in my heart of hearts what I need to do just need any advise on what to do should I stay for the sake of dd.