I separated from my husband of 15 years, 25 years together last year. I recently discovered he was involved with someone else, most likely emotionally, all along. I am a teacher and he is on the board of governors. I was also on the board, although I have recently taken a leave of absence as I cannot stand being around him and listening to him undermining me and my work in meetings. The head teacher has done nothing about this, despite my raising this a number of times. However, it feels like he is still around my workplace all the time. I am always bumping into him (he publicly blanks me) and I just want some space from him to get on with my job. I would love him to resign but it doesn't look like this is going to happen. I am on edge all the time and feel so unsupported. Clearly the best thing would be to get a new job, but jobs are thin on the ground and I need to be earning to support myself and the kids as he doesn't help at all. It is not me who is fooling around, nor me who has lied and deceived and yet I feel like I am being punished.