Selfish bastard!!!

[Misssmoo]

I had a d and c following a mmc 4 weeks ago..now I have recieved a letter saying they found a mature cystic teratoma so I am a bit worried...I came home from work today I have two other kids ..husband said I do nothing and then because I wouldn't do the deed said he's sick of me and doesn't want to speak to me ..how fucking petty I feel like telling him to get out ..on top of all that he's been getting pissed while I do everything woth the kids..sick to the back teeth

You should tell him to get out. He sounds like a selfish awful man.

Sounds horrendous. Did you tell him about the teratoma? Sorry I don't know what it is but you're clearly concerned

What is the point of him ?

It's a dermoid cyst I have made an appt at gp coz not sure if it's still there or not letter wasn't clear ...he knows about it I'm foaming ...men are arseholes at times ..he's an immature bastard and then he says when he goes to work I needn't think I'm going out all the time haha last drink I had was before found out I was pregnant

Get rid. What an absolute bastard. Why would you want you and your children around someone who treats you like shit

Deserve better op x

What Anyfucker says. Sorry to hear you're having a shit time at the hands of yet another walking emotional vacuum /selfish manchild.

He's not being selfish! He's being a monumental cunt!

Please get him out of your lives? He's vile!

men are arseholes at times

I disagree with this generalisation. Your man is an arsehole as was my ex, but there are lots of decent ones out there.

Oh look, another woman having to suffer yet another arsehole.

I'd put his stuff in bin bags on the doorstep. Shocking behaviour from him.
Hope you are ok op

He is an arse hole..... not all men are arse holes!

No, the man you are stuck with is an arsehole OP, please don't think they are all like him because they sure as hell are not.

Hissy

My bad, I wasn't thinking straight. I was blinded by the sadness and anger and feeling sorry for the one I'm dealing (he is 'depressed') with at the moment but I've found my big girls pant this morning and yes I can wholeheartedly agree. He is a cunt. Sorry OP ask him to leave so he realises just what he has thrown away.

If you have a BDF and a TYG on you, then what are you going to do? UAE? Look, consider CX or ML but never QW. Is he also PK? Then you should JFK. But don't do DZ and LP.

Oh Roundandroundwegoagain my comment wasn't aimed at you! :) Please, no need to apologise to me

Depression is horrid, but it absolutely does not rob a person of basic humanity towards others. There are MANY men who use 'depression' as an abusive cloak to hide behind.

Most depressives are terrified their partners will leave them... so treating them like this is unlikely. Sure it's possible to react badly when frightened or in a down period, but being aggressive, attacking and insulting is not inevitable just because a person has been diagnosed with depression.

Depression is anger turned inwards. Abuse is manufactured anger, it's not even real, its a means to an end.

Incidentally, many abusers will go to the Docs and come back with a depression diagnosis. they will use this as a weapon, and say 'Look, this is what you have driven me to'

Hissy that's exactly what he did and then fucked off anyway but can still go out drinking and I'm fairly certain doing other unmentionables. And to think I've been killing myself to try and be better. I'm
Fairly c train there's an OW although he's been the same for years the gp this is fairly new. Sorry op don't mean to hijack!

I'm walking and typing! Not illiterate!