In the process of filing for divorce

[GanawMe]

And it feels amazing .

Got the ball rolling today with regards to applying for Legal Aid, and it feels good.

Ten years of abuse. Nasty, vindictive, manipulating abuse. And I'm very nearly free.

It's taken a lot to get here, and we're actually reasonably amicable now but there's no going back ever.

I had to speak to the police today to get all the crime reference numbers, and as he read out the dates I had flashbacks of the 999 calls as they happened at that time. The fear, the adrenaline, the unknown.

I'm waiting for Woman's Aid to call me back to confirm they can write a letter to back up my Legal Aid claim, then I can properly get the ball rolling.

For anyone out there who feels trapped, please, you can do it. Free yourself from a life of misery. You deserve better .

Well done OP. Getting your power & control. All the best for your better future. X

Thank you Bones, Woman's Aid called and I've got an appointment next week with their solicitor. Feels surreal but looking forward to it.

Yay, good for you OP. Same here, it's a brilliant feeling. Posts like yours helped me make the move so thank you and good luck ☘️

Good luck to you too Njord. It really is a relief isn't it. I had a long running post on here a few years ago under another name whilst I was waiting for him to be arrested. The support I got was immense and I'll forever be greatful for all the practical advice I received.

It it all goes smoothly for you

Well done OP, that is an amazing and positive story! You must feel the most immense relief and I'm so pleased for you. I hope everything goes smoothly from now on but the worst bit is over! Enjoy your new life.

Thank you.