ok fess up who has givent heir dh a STERN talkign to theis wekend

[CODalmighty]

afetr poor old ernest's sad news

northener, do you work away a lot?

or do you work in a hotel?

I finally had to stop seeing my boss/his dw socially because I couldn't be a party to the deception. He and I travelled alot for work, and I saw what he got up to while away - and how cuddly/smoochy he was with dw once back in the country. Made my stomach turn.

ex boss, I should say.

see my dh is always away
normally in a bar iwht menfolk though

I did a sort of sideways glance like hatrick

dh has lots of opportunity if he wanted to I imagine

cod, could he be turned by the other menfolk?

oh eys
and he whas pink shirts osmetimes

HD I used to work in hotels. Now I work for an event management company. We oragnise conferences/course for pharma companies. We also provide on site support and mingle with teh delegates alot.

Pink shirts on a masculine bloke look very good.

As long as they arent tight and got those skinnyrib stripes in.

Northener, you could have sent secret little letters to the home addresses while the dh's were in your hotel!

It's so very sad. Makes me realise how lucky I am to be financially independent.

I can't afford to have an affair, im not financially independent!!

I think my boss thought it was Ok because his flings were usually one nighters. None progressed to relationships. He loved his dw, but just wanted to sleep around alot...and he did. Awful for her.

In the last few years ,3 friends dh's have had affairs,none of them worked away.
One had affair with wife's bfriend.
Other two were shagging work colleagues.

The sad thing is that lots of ostensibly nice men do sleep around. My dad was one-- great father to me, awful husband to my mother ( she eventually threw him out)

WHy can't they see that being a good father is all about being nice to the mother of your children too?

I just don't get it.

HD, funny you should say that. When I was ahotel receptionist we had a group of guys that would stay with us Mon - Thurs and I got to know a lot of them. One in particular always had a woman with him. I just assumed she was his wife. Then one evening his wife called to speak to him and I said 'He's just gon einto dinner with his wife. Ooops'

I soon learnt never to assume.

By coincidence dh and I were watching a trailer last night for a new (I think comedy) film calles "I love my wife" or someting along those lines about a guy who is tempted tp stray. I did think of Ernest and others as we were watching it (and dh gave me a sort of reassuring kiss when it was over)