He did treat me awful didn't he? I'm hurt

[Whatdoyouso]

I met a guy in January.
Really didn't expect to like him but I did,we got on well and he made me smile.
After our first date we met for our second a couple of dates later and before I knew it we had had 7 dates and he asked me if I was now his girlfriend ..I said of course.
He stayed at mine twice a week and we text and talked when we wernt together.
He lives about 50 mins away drive.
The only thing he did say was it would be easier if I lived closer after a 12hr shift.
Anyway he spoke about meeting his son and meeting family's.
Fast forward 3 months still going good.
One day I woke up and he hasn't text..I thought nothing of it just must be busy with work.
So I text him at 12 no reply ...
Tried calling after work nothing ..I panic thinking is he ok? He drives for work so I was worried he had been in a crash then I go on Facebook and he was posting videos etc.
He didn't reply ever again ..2 weeks later (after obsessively checking his Facebook he deleted me)
I was devastated but still clicked on his page ..and about 5-6 days later he was listed in a relationship with a new woman.
Two weeks later I'm still crushed.
I don't understand what happened.
How can you be so cruel?

Don't you realize that by leaving he did you the biggest favor of your life? He's not worth a single tear.

just try to remember that not all relationships are going to be the greastest love affair of your life for all of your life. You could have some that last years, months, hours just try to enjoy them and when they come to a close, shrug them off and move on.

He treated you badly by not getting in contact to tell you it's ended but he would have only give you a load of bullshit as to why - too far away, just not feeling it, just want to be friends and none of it would have been anything to do with you and what you did or didn't do unless you were abusive to him. Any other excuse is what he feels about the relationship not what you feel.

It helps to remember that you have all levels of friends, some close, some not so close but thats not something they have done, it's how YOU feel about them and where you put them in terms of closeness to you. Same goes to men/boyfiends and where they put you.

what does she have that I don't

What's she's got is that pile of shit. What you don't have is that pile of shit.

What has she got that you haven't? An unreliable, two-faced, cowardly boyfriend.

You will be fine honey, totally fine. Just sorry you experienced that, must have hurt a lot. But as everyone else has said, better to find that out now, would hurt much more down the line.

xx