So I had a baby 2 years ago, with a guy i was engaged to but he met someone while i was pregnant, we split up and an old flame of mine reappeared in my life having been the other side of the world for a couple of years. We were sort of seeing each other but he kept blowing hot and cold about whether to stay in UK or go away again etc and we sort of drifted apart after about a year. I was still very much in touch with babys dad as they had contact too and at this point he was single as was I and we spent a few family days together and on a couple of occasions he stayed the night. In jan i found out i was pregnant so we decided to make a go of it and yea things are perfectly fine we have just been on holiday together as a family and its ace. However this old flame got in touch in feb to tell me how much he misses me and that he loves me and was too scared before bla bla bla and wants us to be together etc... i just sort of said too late and forgot about it but hes just messaged me today and its just making me think what if...? Like i know that me and the kids dad wont be together forever because he cant stay faithful and it will only be a matter of time.... advice/tell me to snap out of it