As a gal who has been about and married twice and has friends who feel the same way, let me tell all you men out there how to succeed and keep your woman happy. I speak from many years of experience and therapy. This is true for 90/95% of all women and I want you men to know these secrets so the world will be a better place.
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Sex. Yes men, we want it when we are in the mood, when we feel loved, respected, or just in the mood because we are. No, we don't need to chalk it up on the kitchen notice board or make new years resolutions to "bang" every day. If you annoy us or are consistently unhelpful, rude or ignorant then guess what? We'd rather watch a chick flick or go on facebook.
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Housework. God did not make girl babies appear with a duster in one fist and the other attached to a hoover. These skills were passed on to us by well meaning adults who are just beginning to realise that having a penis does not mean it will drop off should it's owner learn how to clean and take responsibility for cleaning and other generally boring but necessary tasks to live in health and harmony. Putting the bin out or using a screwdriver does not give anyone a free pass from the mundane stuff.
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Grooming. Once you pass the naturally toned and phwarr stage of your twenties, stop letting it all hang out and get thyself to a gym and tone up the slack. Don't walk around like a white legged builder thinking you are equal to the likes of Depp/Clooney/Firth/Jackson and co. Do not under any circumstance attempt growing hair and sweeping it over any balding bits. Believe me when I tell you women do not like this.
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Do not let your woman find floating poo debris in the loo or in your pants. Clean up after yourself. Do not leave your razor where your woman may see it or she may take revenge and use it on bits of herself that you may prefer not to think about.
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Do not think any occasional bunch of wilting flowers from a garage on her birthday/ anniversary/ when you have been texting/ lusting after a new shiny ow is acceptable. Accept your woman may not see this is good enough.
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Keep your penis clean, healthy and loyal at all times even if it means smacking it whenever it gets ideas above it's station and starts waving over something or someone else who is not you woman. Should penis win out over brain do the decent thing and leave your woman with her dignity and self respect intact.
Dear Peter and men, I speak to you all and there is plenty more to add but if you really want to be good enough for your woman and I believe there are lots of you who do, then read this thread.