First night after moving out

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Just looking for some hand holding really.
DH desperately wants to make things work between us since our big conversation 2 weeks ago about me not being happy and has got more and more frustrated that I'm not getting with the programme to do that. From the outset I've said I need space to get my thoughts together and decide what I want. I've now got that - I moved out last night for 2 weeks, with shared access to our DC. He messaged me last night to say he feels I've walked out and that things will never be the same whatever I decide.
I woke up this morning feeling panicky and sick. I'm questioning my judgement. Will a break help? I just want clarity about what I want. Do you start to get that with some time apart? I know it's barely 24 hours in, but I could really do with some reassurance that this is going to help me get where I need to be.

Anyone?

Try not to panic. It's just a big adjustment to your routine.
This was a decision you made, based on a lot of thought. You didn't just randomly pack up and leave.
Everyone goes through this doubt during a break/break up. You left for clarity so go and enjoy yourself.
Don't let what he says influence your decision, you have to be happy.

He's not going to blow up if you don't return; you obviously thought long and hard about this and nothing wrong with having a bit space; it wont do any harm at all, stick with it; don't let him manipulate you.

Thanks both for your wise words. I'm such a people pleaser (at least with him!) that I keep questioning myself. I feel a bit calmer now - I'm going to stick it out.

Hope you're feeling better, OP ❤

Give yourself time and permission to have a few wobbles - this is what having some time and space will help you work through, and exactly why you need it! Hope you feel better soon, whatever you decide to do long-term.