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BeigeTrousers · 09/04/2017 23:48

Hello, just struggling with questions while deciding whether I should get back in touch with this person or if it is kinder/ wiser to leave it alone.
Three years ago I was broken up with by a girl. This was because she moved to New Zealand. We were very close, we dated for almost two years and lived together almost one. After she left we talked for about another year growing less frequent, I thought I had moved on. Since she left I have been in a couple good relationships, and shall we say dabbled with a few other girls, but my mind often goes back to the original girl. I smile thinking of pleasent times with her often and miss her still sometimes, Is this a sign? Is it Love?

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JK1773 · 09/04/2017 23:53

It's nostalgia IMO. Contact her and see how she is but she might have moved on by now. Just be prepared in case you're disappointed. How can you be together if she's in NZ? I wish the best for you as I am a soppy old romantic but life can be a bit shit x

BeigeTrousers · 09/04/2017 23:57

It's true, haha thank you. I will talk to her but your right I'm getting carried away with thoughts of her confessing she feels the same and an imminent immigration to NZ. Unlikely, lifes not the movie we'd like it to be...But...

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JK1773 · 10/04/2017 00:07

Haha, don't we all wish it was Grin

MidnightVelvetthe7th · 10/04/2017 11:06

No its not love, its a sign that you need to move on Wine be nostalgic but start looking forwards not backwards

PollyPerky · 10/04/2017 11:41

Just get in touch. She dumped you from what you have said. You still care for her. If you do contact her she may say she is now happy with someone else- be prepared. I hate to say this but if she dumped you and has not said anything that makes you think she's missing you, do you think she would like to re kindle it? You can only try.

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