I found my of partner of 15 years had been messing around on me for months before Christmas, though I don't know the extent of the betrayal i am clearly hurt.
I don't know if I'm being unreasonable but a work friend has passed away and there funeral is coming up ( doesn't sound like they we close spoke regularly to each other but no social aspect to the relationship). anyway the person that my partner was having whatever it was with is going to be there and my partner wants to go.
I am asking them not to but they won't back down about it and insist that the are going and I'm worried that it is only to see them . Am I crazy ?