A friend has recently become distant and odd with me and it turns out has been confiding another friend that she's begun an affair and telling said friend not to tell me.
Not sure if it's because she thinks I will judge her or because she's embarrassed or because I know her husband and kids. I'm not bothered about the affair (not that I condone it I don't) it's none of my business but I'm upset with how she's being with, not responding to messages, dashing off when I bump into her, excluding me & asking close friends to keep things from me. She doesn't know I know and I can't say anything without dropping the other friend in it. I don't want to loose her as a friend; though feels like I already have. Maybe it's time I backed off and left her to it and if she needs me she knows where I am. 