Me and DH have been married a year almost two. In this one year we have never lived together. I found out that he lives with a woman in London and they had an affair and she's the co director for his company.
This lady messaged me and said they had s brief affair it's over and it's all work now.
I then had a fling lasting a month which my hubby found out about and stopped coming home altogether.
His business is in London n he used to come home on the weekends only. The plan was to move to London in December and be a family.
He stoped the plans and now doesn't come home unless to pick up our daughter for a day or two at a time.
Things haven't been defined at the moment. Is it over? Are we separated etc mostly coz he says he has no time to talk.
He calls me a whore, he threatens to have me deported as I'm on a spouse visa, if I say something he doesn't like he threatens to stop paying my bills. I'm job hunting so don't worry I'm on the road to financial freedom.
However, lately he says he wants to get back together n try again.
I don't know if I want to. I don't feel love at all coz of all he's put me through.but I feel like it's the most convenient thing to do, we've never lived together and we have a baby so maybe things will be better once we do??