So this morning I got up at 6:30 like I do everyday with my 3yo, sorting breakfast for her etc, about an hour later my partner comes down with the baby, passes her to me and disappears back upstairs. He sometimes does this then 'accidentally' falls asleep in bed. So I shouted him down. Since this he has just been lay on the rug in the lounge while I have fed the baby, played with her, occupied the 3yo etc. I needed to get ready so left him downstairs with the kids, lay the baby on the floor next to him, came back about 30 minutes later and low and behold he's still lay there on the rug, droopy eyed and I know he'd gone sleep, the baby was still on the floor (moved around a bit, she's trying to crawl) and had spat up a bit of milk. I asked if she'd been on the floor that whole time and he said she's fine she's not been crying or anything. So now I've just changed her and got her dressed, I'm about to dress the 3yo and get nursery bag and baby bag ready. His dad gets here in ten minutes for us all to nip out somewhere and he is STILL just lay on that fucking rug festering in his dressing gown. He stays up late most nights on the Xbox and then is so tired he becomes useless in the mornings. I go to bed alone nearly every night. I just find his lack of motivation so frustrating!! I'm getting tired of it and it's such an unattractive quality. I don't know what to do 