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Waiting for sex

6 replies

NoMessin · 27/03/2017 19:03

I'm in my 50s and have met someone, possibly.

Really don't want to have sex early, not until I decide I really like them and its mutual. This goes against the habits of a lifetime Blush. I suppose I want to enjoy the romantic friendship and excitement possibilities as long as possible, and actually get to know them first.

Anyone else do this with positive results? Cha cha cha!

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NotTheFordType · 27/03/2017 19:16

I suppose I want to enjoy the romantic friendship and excitement possibilities as long as possible

That sounds like you expect sex to make the relationship more dull. Is that the case? Or are you the kind of committment phobe who enjoys the chase more than the teamwork?

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NoMessin · 27/03/2017 19:20

A strange response Ford, complete wrong end of the stick.

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Original poster
NoMessin · 27/03/2017 19:20

heh ho.

I think I'll trust my instincts instead Smile

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HerOtherHalf · 27/03/2017 19:24

I don't see anything wrong with getting to know someone and knowing that you're emotionally compatible before sleeping together. Am I missing something?

TheNaze73 · 27/03/2017 19:33

You should do whatever you want. Everyone's attitude to this will be different. First night or 3 months, if it's right, it's right

AutumnRose1988 · 27/03/2017 20:48

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