Just found a receipt

[Workitbabe]

Just found a receipt in the house for a full body massage. It has got to be dp's as it was next to a pile of his other stuff and general receipts that we have been keeping having just bought the house and are making lots of purchases.
I don't know why but I feel sick.
Why would he not mention he was going for a massage?
Also his sons 17 year old girlfriend is a trained therapist and works at a salon and I am wondering if she did it. I may sound prudish but I think that would be odd being massaged by your sons gf. Sadly there is no company name on the receipt. It was also only £15. Very cheap.

I am going to have to ask him about it. I just feel really uneasy.

OP is there a chance it was one of those 'at the desk' ones (shoulders or head usually but maybe the wording on the receipt is wrong) offered in offices sometimes? Heavily subsidised by the company? Maybe he was a bit embarrassed so didn't mention it?

I have to disagree with PPs saying a massage by the daughter in law and not mentioned to you would not be weird. Erm, yes it would!

I have just spent £75 on a massage, so wonder what £15 would get you.

It's weird to not tell you - you need to ask.

oh nottheford are you a naughty lady

Maybe it's his son's? He got a discounted rate from his girlfriend and left the receipt at yours!

I'd just casually bring it up, and watch his reaction. Could it be your son's? I'm sure it's nothing to worry about x

Ooh thought, OP could it be a receipt for a gift voucher for you (birthday coming up? Any younger children it could be fro. For Mothers' Day?).

a) Prostitutes don't give receipts.
b) You don't know if it was your son's girlfriend who gave him a massage.
c) You don't even know if the receipt is his.

Why don't you ask him before leaping to conclusions?

Talk to your husband. Ask when he had a massage. Communicate.

Oh yes it could be a pre-paid Mother's Day present for you (discounted rate from your step son's girlfriend!)

I have a lovely full-body massage every month. So does Mrs Piglover. From the same person! It is not in the least sexual. I wish ours only cost 15 quid.

I have always had various type of massage both for health and for a treat
Never paid less than 50

I'd just be presuming I was getting a present - unless there is history

I get a full body thai massage once a month. I did end up in a dodgy place once and I phoned my dh after as it was so intimate i wasn't sure if I had been unfaithful. Didn't go back there again and found a really good place that is all above board.

If massage is what she does for a living why would it be any different her massaging her boyfriends df as opposed to any other man his age. If she was a hairdresser would it be weird if she cut his hair? Or a dentist and checked his teeth? It's healing touch not sexual unless you specifically go looking for that it in my case end up there by accident. If she was a physiotherapist would that make a difference? I do agree not mentioning it is a bit strange as I would always mention it after as I usually feel good about it and talk about it.

Why don`t you just ask him instead of posting on here?

If he'd got a massage from his son's gf (presumably in the college as there was a receipt) why wouldn't that come up in normal conversation? It's not part of the daily grind routine, so you would be likely to mention it.
I think it's that he didn't mention it that is giving you the sick feeling. Mention it to him in a lighthearted way.
If I had a masseur boyfriend, I'd be uncomfortable with him giving my mum a full body massage.

I wouldn't mind a massage, never had one before. I'd try it for 15 quid. Leave him be, he just had some relaxation time and so what if his son's gf did it? She hardly saw or touched him in areas to give you concern.

It tells you it's full body massage but it doesn't tell you the name or address or any other identifying info?

Could it be a deposit?

Oh dear, yes, I would find that odd too. Maybe he's pre-paid and it's a gift for you? clutches at straws

It's just a massage, I've had quite a few massages over the years but never for as little as £15.

Oddly DW won't let me get a massage from a woman, which is fine as there's a sports massage guy around the corner, but she's OK with me seeing a female chiropractor......

Are you the same poster whose DP has been texting and flirting with his own son's 17 year old girlfriend?

I've just advanced searched and yes you are.

A £15 massage is the least of your problems.

It sounds like his son is doing a bit of shit stirring and has put the receipt in your OH's belongings hoping you would find it.
Sounds like the kind of thing a 17 year old boy would think is funny.

Oh OP. If the last few messages are anything close to the truth, then

What kind of receipt was it? Printed or hand-written?

Does it really say "Full Body Massage" on it?