Since becoming a mother, I've made friends with two other women that I met at a toddler group. We met regularly for walks and coffee etc, but I never really felt like they were 'my kind of people', iykwim... in the sense that they are actually both rude, abrupt and quite unapproachable. For example, while out for lunch one day, one snapped her fingers and leaned back shouting at a waitress who did not bring her change quick enough. Wtf?!
They keep messaging me to meet up and I keep making excuses. What do I do? Put on my big girl pants and be honest, or just keep declining invites?