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Why is everything DP does annoying the hell out of me?????

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MejustMe · 04/03/2007 22:48

Dp and I have been together just over a year, are very much in love and expecting our first baby together...we both have ds's from previous relationships. since finding out i was expecting he has been a nightmare, i can't carry shopping, make the bed etc, the slightest thing is making me snap at him, i am paranoid he is picking on my ds, he isn't but i think he is....over protective? paranoid? at the moment he is in bed and i am being stubborn and refusing to go so am sleeping on sofa....i know stubborness doesn't solve anything. I don't remember feeling like this when I was pg with ds, I was happier I THINK!!!! Also am feeling really chunky and down. oh god i must sound a right whinger...sorry x

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Tiggerish · 04/03/2007 23:05

Sorry you're feeling so crap. Sounds to me like he just loves you and wants to nurture you and the baby in the only way he knows how. Go and give him a cuddle and tell you love him - best way to solve bad feeling imo.

southeastastra · 04/03/2007 23:06

make the most of it, it won't last hehe

Sobernow · 04/03/2007 23:09

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MejustMe · 05/03/2007 18:55

I eventually went to bed after much of his persuassion lol but he still annoying me with being so caring....i think it is just that i am not used to it??? never had such a person in my life before.....

Thanks folks x

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ClaireBlair · 06/03/2007 03:24

If his caring is bugging you, and you say you never had such a person in your life, it sounds like you may need consider that you are actually worth being cared for. And that you don't have to try and push him away, or push him into being mean to you (cos in your mind that would 'prove' that you are not worth being cared for).
Relax, and try to enjoy the intent if not the way he is expressing it.

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