...or lack of. His (overall) approach is to get very cross very quickly (often without getting all the details) and then leave the scene/go silent. He then returns and is sweetness and light/wrestling Disney dad 
I have pointed out that absolutely nothing is learnt 're the actual misdemeanour and that this isn't discipline at all but I'm bloody fed up. He acts like his annoyance is a reflection of how bad the behaviour is (nothing out of ordinary) but he's not dealing with anything at all. I am posting simply because I actually don't know if I can even confront this - again- I'm nearly past caring but I thought maybe someone has had a similar experience or has any view on this. Should say it's not an out if control situation just pointless crossness. Pretty cross myself here.