viagra secret stash

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Hi I need advice as I'm so upset I can hardly bring myself to write this..

I found Viagra in the car.. next to a child's car seat and I cannot get over the irresponsibility of my husband . As well as being in shock about him using the drug, my child could of taken any of these blue pills .... and I am so upset I cannot trust him anymore.
I do not care if he using these drugs or why he is using these drugs ,however I do care about my child and cannot forgive him for hiding this stash in the car near where my child sits...
Do I have to do a drug raid on my car every time I use it ?
would ANYONE ELSE BE THIS ANGRY OR AM I ABNORMAL ?

No, totally unforgivable.

He's a turd!

Why don't you care why he has them??

Does he use them with you?
If he doesn't then you have lots more to worry about.

Okay..... so I'm going to assume that... by your reaction ... that you know your husband in having sex with other people....

it's the safe storage of Viagra Drug that has pissed you off.... ?

just tell him to stop being so reckless ....

I am angry that our child or another child could of taken these. if I approach the subject it will cause yet another argument. He is never wrong.

sex with other people - really don't care , as long as its not with me. The relationship is dead .trust him no more

I am shocked/ angry/ upset he would put child's life in danger

the disgust and venom you express for your husband begs the question.... why are you still living with this reckless argumentative man you care nothing for ?

I agree. Why are you even with him ?

I am not "with him" I have asked for separation.

Leave him then.
Speak to a solicitor get the ball rolling

My DD aged 3 could of taken these ,they were in a clear plastic bag .He's 31 years old and works long hours. I was just looking for support , I was being truthful .I cannot stop him doing what he wants , with whom , I don't think I was venomous, I am very disappointed .

That is awful. I don't blame you for being angry. Just because he's checked out and you've asked for a separation doesn't mean he can check out of being a sane parent. Once my mum babysat when my eldest was about 8 months old and I found a sleeping pill on the sofa. I never mentioned it but I was really annoyed.

He's a bit young to need viagra...

As you are seperating, can you tell him you found some drugs in the car which could be dangerous to your DD and you've thrown them away.

What are your plans to actually separate?
I agree. He is young for viagra.
Throw them away.
Down the loo.
And then tell him what you've done and if he puts your child's life in danger again you'll report him to SS.

Why is he hiding them if your ok with it?

Not necessarily too young for viagra, I /very/ briefly dated a guy who needed them and was 25.