It's more of a vent than anything. Me and my partner have been together 5 years (since I was 18, he was 24) and have a 3 year old together. As always when we met it was exciting, we went places, were out every night and weekend etc. Then we became parents and as expected everything slowed down. Which at first I was fine with. But now it's too slow. We never go anywhere, or do anything spontaneous. If I want to go and do something I ask my best friend because it's such a hassle when I ask my OH cause he never wants to do anything, and when we do something he moans about it. My other half has got a chronic pain disorder which has flared up recently which means I do everything at the moment which I feel has brought me to writing this down on here. I probably am being selfish but I'm just so bored right now. If I talk to him about it it just result in an argument and I cry and say I'll adjust. I'm 23. Is this life now 😂